Mistakes Women Make During Sex ( Part 2 )

Going to bed in stretch pajamas

A big mistake most women make is going to bed in their stretch pajamas, thinking that it is not so important what to wear at night. This get-up is for sure a passion-killer. So, Ladies, when you go to sleep put on sexy lingerie, your beloved will appreciate it.

Lying without movement and thinking of a new dress.

Most women believe that sex is only pleasing for a man, and they have to lie without movement, thinking of a new dress that they saw in a shop, while their poor man tries to get some reaction. Lying in the bed like a dead body is a real turn-off for a man. Don’t view sex as a duty; enjoy it with your man.

Making him responsible for your orgasm

Stop doing it. His duty isn't just to make you reach orgasm, don't be so self-loving. If you know what can make you reach orgasm, tell it to your man. He is not a mind-reader.

Unshaved legs

Don’t expect you man always be clean-shaved when going to bed, when you legs are so prickly that scratch his shins. Shave your legs and apply a powder or a moisturizing cream so he doesn’t think he is trying to get out from an Amazon Jungle.

Sleeping in his arms means that he loves you.

After sex women like to talk and cuddle, while men like to sleep. It is something biological and not intentionally. And what’s that desire to sleep in his arms. Try to put your head on your arm and see what you will feel after a while. Do you feel comfortable? Your arms grew numb. So, next time don’t think that he doesn’t love you because he doesn't want you to sleep in his arms.

Ashamed to undress in front of him.

Don’t be ashamed to undress in front of your man, as men like to look at their woman body and feast upon their beauty. Don’t deprive your man from this pleasure!

Forgetting about man.

Often women are so concerned with foreplay, enjoying men’s touches and caress that forget that their man might also like to be touched and caressed. Make sure you don’t forget about your man, you are not the one who needs to be pleased. Ask what you man likes and do it.

Being too hygienic.

Probably the main reason that kills the desire for sex is when a woman leaves her man in passion and rushes to the bathroom to wash and change the sheets. Leave all that cleaning when he is gone or shower together, it will spice up you too.

As you can see women also are capable to make mistakes during sex. So, Ladies if you want to make you sex life better, avoid these most common mistakes.

Mistakes Women Make During Sex (Part 1)

Men are not the only one who make mistakes during sex, women also do them. When in a relationship appear problems the both partners are guilty, the thing is that someone initiates them and another continues.
Below are listed some of the most common mistakes women make during sex.
Ladies be honest you do it.

He must do the first move.

Women always believe that man is a hunter and therefore he must make the first move. But ladies men will be absolutely over the moon if you start sex and make the fist move. Most of them dream about this, but women don’t want to break the old sexual traditions, expecting men do first move. They may wait weeks, craving for their man, but will don’t do the first move.

Worrying about their look.

Many women are worrying about their look during sex, forgetting about what they are really doing at present. Paying attention on how you look will distract you from what you're actually supposed to be doing. Men don’t care about little cellulite dimples on your thighs, or that you gain 300 grams of weight. The only thing they want is to know that you enjoy it and have fun.

Stating that men are not romantic.

Most of women think that men can’t be romantic. But they are capable to be romantic and make you feel like a queen. Only don’t ask him for thousands of times to make you a romantic dinner, as such things are not done against order.

Thinking that men want only sex.

The reason of this thinking is hidden in men, as they painted themselves in this way. But in fact it is not true, because men also suffer from low libido when they are stressed or tired. They even can be not in the mood, when it comes to football or their favorite computer game. In case a man doesn’t want sex, woman will think that he doesn’t love her anymore, but love has nothing to do with sex.

A man knows everything about sex.

Just because he is a man it doesn’t mean that he is an expert in this area. If you not tell him that you don’t like some of his moves during sex, he will continue doing it. Communication is what makes relationship strong and successful. Talk to your partner about sex, say what you like and what you would not like to do during sex.

Being scared to try something new.

Women usually are afraid to try something new in their sex life. In case a man offers to his woman to try a new position it doesn’t mean that he is not interested in her anymore. He only tries to make their sex life diversified and interesting. If you don’t want to do what he offers talk to him.

How to Make your Ex-Boyfriend Jealous

There may be many reasons you want to make your ex-boyfriend jealous. Some of them may be good and some of them could be really bad. Almost all of them are sure to be immature and petty. But the broken heart wants what it wants. Who cares about being good and righteous when you can be evil and get even? All the pop psychology aside, sometimes it’s therapeutic to make an ex jealous. Something vindictive about having him regret not being with you. So, take a deep breath as we indulge our darker side...

1. The best revenge, they say, is to live well. As vague as that is, it’s pretty clear that if you are happy with your current situation in life, it means that your life is a lot better without your ex. Be happy with your life and life’s choices. Make your peace with your current situation and be content. True happiness shows on your face, through your smile and your laughter.

2. Do not stop working, exercising and hanging out with friends, especially common friends. You need to continue your routine to stay sane. Also, hanging out with common friends will only help your cause. They can act as indirect messengers between you and your ex-boyfriend.

3. Do not post depressing status messages on Facebook. Do not tweet that you’re now broken hearted. This will appear too contrived and sad. Do post standard and mundane messages about work or studies. Another option is posting updates about music, movies you watched, clubs that you went to, etc.

4. Always look your best. Even if you step out to buy tangerines or cereal, look good. You don’t have to wear your Sunday best, but be groomed. Even if you’re casually dressed, do not be frazzled and sloppy. When you leave your house, ask yourself if you want to look like this if your ex-boyfriend runs into you? Would this look be good enough to make him regret his decision?

5. Hang out with one of your guy friends to make your ex-boyfriend jealous. Not more than one. It could be viewed as desperate. If you have a friend that your ex was always jealous of, half your work is done. Do not be over-flirtatious; however, you can be affectionate and warm.

6. If you run into your ex, be very casual. Act like you would if you ran into a casual friend of the opposite gender. Answer everything he asks in a matter-of-fact manner. Talk about exams, college, etc. Anything mundane and routine that isn’t indicative of your heartache is good. If you are asked “How you doing?”, say that you’re doing well. Respond naturally and in the way you would to an acquaintance or even a stranger. Don’t look sad or forlorn.

7. Do not do stuff that would be perceived as familiar. For example, if a song is playing, don’t proclaim that you remember how much your ex loves this song. If he sniffles, don’t ask him if the allergy is still acting up. Do not comment on things like new haircuts, clothes, etc., even if that’s the first thing you notice.

8. Look distracted and keep checking the time. Always leave before him and say you’re late. Implying that you’re late for something is a great way of signing off. Do not elaborate what you’re late for.

9. Don’t ever be hostile or indifferent. This reeks of the fact that you are still not over him. If you smile and act like running into him hasn’t affected you, your ex will get the message that you don’t care.

10. Don’t ask your ex-boyfriend about immediate or long term plans. Don’t ask “What you doing tonight?” or “What plans for the weekend?”. Once you banish curiosity, you will be able to show your ex that you don’t care about his life and you have truly moved on. Asking your ex if he has seen a certain movie or play will be considered a hint. Ditto about concerts, recitals, art shows, etc. Do not make any indication of wanting to hang out with him. The same applies to bigger decisions such as which college or university he plans to go to.

11. If you’re seeing someone new, call him when your ex-boyfriend is around. Don’t raise your voice but mumble sweet nothings. Be barely audible. Your body language and smile should indicate that you’re having a flirty conversation. If your ex asks about him, be terse and to the point. Say that he is really fun to hang out with and end the conversation at that. It will kill your ex if you’re having fun with someone new!

12. You could also subtly flirt with someone when you know your ex is watching. Do not be over-flirtatious in a cheap and desperate way. Saying a line here and a little eye contact there should be enough. Don’t make too much of physical contact. Touch the shoulder or arm slightly while talking, but not in a gross way. Choose someone special to shower your attention on. Do not flirt with everyone. Having just one object of affection seems credible.

13. Do fun things like take a fishing trip with your friends or go clubbing. Be sure to mention this to a friend who will convey this to your ex. Your ex will hate it that you have an independent life beyond him.

If you want to make your ex-boyfriend jealous just to get back at him, you could use one or many of these tips. However, if you want to win your ex-boyfriend back, be careful with certain things like flirting with someone new or being seen with someone new. Seeing you with someone new could act as a catalyst and help your ex move on. So, figure out your agenda before beginning the exercise.

Understand that making your ex-boyfriend jealous will either make you feel vindicated or content, but only temporarily. In order to move on or to get together with your ex again, you will have to banish negative emotions and bring in the positive ones. Whatever your agenda, you can indulge your broken heart and do things that make you feel better at that moment. However, draw the line when it gets obsessive and out of control.

Use All Five Senses to Spice up Your Sex Life

Don't fall into a routine, doing always the same things. Switch on your imagination and put all your senses into action. Use these five senses and you will be guaranteed with new and exciting discoveries.

Seeing

It is very romantic when a bedroom is filled with a faint light. Turn the lights on and you will be agreeably surprised at how your partner’s body looks like. Light the candles as they create a romantic atmosphere.

Or you may have sex during the day, in natural light. According to studies morning sex is very healthy. Being ‘visually appealing’ doesn’t mean that you have to be completely naked, keep some clothes on you. Buy some sexy lingerie and seduce your partner.

Another way to spice up your sex is to blindfold you partner. It will heighten your awareness of other sensations. Many couples state that being blindfolded during sex is something unforgettable. Being blindfolded your partner will do not know what you are going to do next. This will arouse you and your partner greatly.

Hearing

Make a play list of you favorite sexy music, as a right play list may create the exactly right mood. Choose music that has a private meaning for you both. Try playing various types of music during sex. See if there are some changes.

Dirty talk, in case you both like it will never be out of place, as it creates a sexy and exciting atmosphere. Talk to you partner, tell what you like and love to do. Only make sure not to let all this dirty talk get too out of your hand. As evidently you don’t want to find all of fourth floor’s ears leaned against your door.

Taste

Go out somewhere to eat with your partner or cook a favorite meal as a prelude. But make sure to not eat too much as indigestion and heartburn are unsexy things. Hand feed each other, do it in a sensual manner, make you partner crave for more.

If you want to a have a really fantastic sex, use edible body lotions, whipped cream, or lick-able fragrances. Don’t be afraid to be playful. Use your imagination and have fun! Only keep in mind any allergies that you or your partner may have.

Smell

According to a research, sexual attraction is significantly based on smell. Conversely, an unpleasant smell is enough to spurn someone, no matter how beautiful you are. Women take more attention on smells than men, so guys be always good smelling and make sure your bedroom is clean.

Use small amounts of your favorite perfume and spray a little on your bed sheets.

Touch

Our skin can be probably compared with a gold mine of hidden erogenous zones that make you shiver when touched. Make sure to not touch one and the same zone each time you have sex. There are so many G-spots and so many ways to touch them as: massaging, licking, circling, light touching and etc.

Not touching can also be an unforgettable sensory experience. An easy way to drive you partner crazy is doing a striptease or exotic dance. You may even use a feather to arouse you partner or whatever else fires your imagination.

Sex and Marriage: How to be a better lover?

Most people expect that the intensity of their sex lives will fade after they marry. Some guys even resign themselves to never having good sex again after deciding to spend the rest of their lives with one woman. But this doesn’t have to be the case; marriage doesn’t necessarily mean the death of hot sex, but it will take some effort from both of you to keep it steamy as the years go by. Here are some tips for having better sex as a married couple.

Use sex to get past ruts in your marriage

There will be times in your marriage when careers, family, kids, friends, hobbies and other important tasks will pack your schedule and get in the way of maintaining a good relationship. There will be periods when the two of you are not communicating well and don’t seem to be connecting with each other. When you experience these ruts in your relationship, don’t let sex go by the wayside.

Use the time you have together wisely by getting frisky. If your marriage is experiencing a dip, it’ll fall even further if the two of you don’t connect sexually. Instead of abandoning your bedroom activities at the first sign of trouble, use sex to get back on track.

Stop looking at her as your wife

Yes, she is the love of your life -- the woman you chose to spend your days with until you both grow old. She is the mother of your children (if you have them) and a domestic goddess that runs your household and your family while still succeeding in a career and a myriad of other duties.

In order to make married sex better, try to stop thinking of her as your adorable and adoring wife when the two of you get frisky. Allow your imagination to run wild; think of her as a dirty sexpot and encourage her to play the part. Tap into the intense attraction you have for each other and forget that you’re husband and wife.

Make your room a no kid zone

Having a better sex life with your wife requires that you both take a step away from your everyday lives and focus on each other. If you are parents, this means that you’re going to have to designate some space in your house for adult-only activities. To this end, consider making your bedroom a no-go area for your children.

The kids usually have the run of the house, but if they know that mum and dad’s room is off limits, you’ll be more likely to have time and space to yourselves on a regular basis. Your bedroom will become a haven where it’s all about the two of you.

Don’t wear pyjamas

It’s a well-known fact that many people -- men and women alike -- feel it’s OK to let themselves go once the wedding vows are exchanged. Unfortunately, this is a one way street to problems with your sex life. If you no longer bother to put in the effort to make yourself attractive to your spouse, she could lose interest in being intimate with you.

Keep the sex hot by maintaining your looks. This means no flannel pyjamas in bed. Slip under the sheets wearing what she thinks you look sexy in, whether it’s the t-shirt she loves to cuddle up to, just your boxers or nothing at all. Don’t come to bed covered up from head to toe. Hopefully this will encourage her to put some imagination into her sleepwear as well.

The best thing about married sex

The major benefit of having sex in a long-term relationship is that you should be able to trust your partner and not be afraid to share all aspects of your sexuality with her. Get your fantasies out in the open, push your boundaries and create the right environment in order to keep exploring sex with the woman you plan to grow old with.

The object of your affection is your ‘best’ friend?

Love. That four letter word that brings so much happiness, so much heartache..but is still so worthwhile. Friendship. That wonderful bonding, that incomparable rush of emotion that cuts across age, race, gender, religion and region. But what happens if you combine the two? Falling in love is complicated enough, so what happens if the object of your affection is your ‘best’ friend?

Friendship blossoming into love is actually a rather common phenomenon. No wonder, considering that friendship is usually built on the platforms of mutual affection, unconditional support, or common interests, backgrounds or circumstances, similar to those that love is built on. Moreover, friends support each other through thick and thin, the good times and the bad and the ups and downs that make up life. Very similar therefore, to the qualities that make up a good mate.

In this context, all it takes is a small spark, to ignite the gentle glow of friendship to the full on flame of passion.

There are many advantages in falling for your best bud. For one, you zip past the 'downside' of dating: Remember the sweaty palms and awkward silences of your first date? Or the constant pressure to present your ‘best’ side? When you're in a romantic relationship with your best friend, you get to relax and just enjoy each other’s company. What’s more, you need not shield those skeletons in your closet 'cause chances are, your friend knows about all of them and loves and accepts you anyway.

However such a situation has a serious downside as well. For example, what if your friend does not share your feelings? What if he/she is so disgusted at your amorous affections that he/she can never look at you the same way again? Or what if things simply don’t work out? These are some serious pitfalls to what might otherwise seem an idyllic scenario. The key question amidst all of this uncertainty is: Is declaring your love to your best friend worth risking the friendship? Tough question but one that definitely needs to be confronted before you take any course of action.

Going forward, the main question is how to broach such a sensitive topic. Will the direct approach of being completely blunt about your feelings be the best approach? Or will the subtle, gradual approach of carefully dropping hints over a certain span of time, be better? Naturally, in matters of the heart there can be no hard and fast rules or foolproof formulae. What’s more, the most important thing while in such a delicate situation is to exercise caution and employ all the sensitivity possible to ensure that things go according to plan.

Here are some helpful tips to keep in mind when dealing with such a dilemma:

1.Assess the situation with a clear head
Although this line of approach may seem pretty much next to impossible when you look at your situation, objectively assessing the situation can make all the difference. Clearly think and list down (preferably in writing) what exactly you feel and expect from the situation. Proceeding without thinking things through can mean making some avoidable mistakes that you might regret later.

2.Prepare yourself for anything
Telling your best friend that you have feelings for him/her means putting your friendship on the line. Perhaps, your friend may return your feelings and the two of you can embark on a romantic relationship. But what if your friend rejects you and wants to continue being strictly friends? You need to be ready to accept whatever the outcome.

3.Test the waters
Observe your friend carefully, (though covertly). Is he/she emotionally available to you? Is he/she interested in someone else or simply ‘off’ love? You will have to judge to the best of your knowledge whether or not your friend is ready to take your friendship to the next level.

4.Time your move
In life, everything is about timing. When you make your move is as crucial as how you make it. Don’t spring your feelings to your friend during a rough work week or a family emergency. Instead, ensure that the object of your affection is in a receptive frame of mind before you proceed further.

5.Make your move
Use your imagination. A wise man once said "Love is all about the grand gestures". Thing big. Think personal. Express your feelings in a manner that encapsulates your feelings in all their spendour. Go that extra mile - it's sure to be worth it in the end.

6.Face the consequences
Accept both victory and defeat with grace. If your friend responds positively - take things slow and savor each moment of your time together. If he/she turns you down, preserve the friendship. Just because you two can’t have romantic love together, doesn’t mean you have to throw away the friendship.

Ultimately, remember whatever the outcome of your ‘coming clean’, come what may, you will always have precious memories of your time together to cherish forever!

The Advices Improve your Sex Life

A healthy and fulfilling love life is not just about finding the right person. If you want your relationship to be satisfying on all accounts, you have to keep yourself physically and emotionally fit. Here are a few lifestyle tips that can help you to enjoy a healthy and active love life.

1. Work Out

Almost everyone knows that regular exercise helps to tone the human body and makes one look more attractive. But other than this, exercising regularly also offers multiple ways of improving one’s sex life. Various types of aerobic exercises are helpful in increasing muscle tone of the body which is useful in maintaining agility. Agility is critical for balance so that one can position oneself appropriately while making love. Being supple and agile will thus ensure that you are comfortable in various sexual positions.Cardiovascular exercises are hugely useful for the circulatory system of the human body. These exercises help in increasing blood flow to the sex organs which is critical for the right transmission of hormones in order to stimulate the mind and senses and make sex pleasurable.

Again specific pelvic exercises are helpful in heightening partner satisfaction while improving your overall health at the same time. Women who go through pregnancies and childbirth may find their pelvic muscles getting loose and therefore resulting in reduced pleasure while lovemaking. The Kegel’s exercise, which involves an act of holding urine, is an effective way of not only increasing pleasure during vaginal intercourse but also in cutting down the risk of developing urinary incontinence in later life. Men too in fact stand to benefit from Kegel’s exercise. Studies have found that men with erectile dysfunction often report that they have improved or regained normal functions by regularly doing Kegel’s exercise. However fitness experts and doctors advise that men and women need to do Kegel’s several times a day for 8-12 weeks to obtain noticeable benefits. The good news is that you can do them anywhere, in a car while waiting at a traffic signal, at work or at home while watching TV. Or you can incorporate Kegel’s into routine exercises like abdominal crunches.

2. Eat right

If you want to have a healthy sex life, make sure that your kitchen is stocked with the right foods. A healthy low-fat diet is essential in keeping the arteries clear and practically everyone knows the importance of a healthy heart if one is to enjoy sex. The heart is the organ which is responsible for pumping blood all over the body and a diet high in saturated fats can clog the arteries and impair blood flow to the genital regions. This will not only hinder a person’s ability to perform but also interfere with sexual pleasure. Thus a diet that is unhealthy for the heart is bound to lead to a sluggish sex life. The importance of effective circulation has already been mentioned in the point above and again a low-fat diet is necessary to keep arteries and blood passages open. In fact foods rich in Omega-3 fatty acids like mackerel, salmon wild salmon are best for boosting circulation of the body. Studies have shown that foods high in L-Arginine like oatmeal, granola and nuts also help in improved circulation which results in greater erectile response. Again fruits and vegetables rich in minerals and multivitamins contribute to improved neurological functions which in turn boost the circulatory system, all necessary for a satisfying sexual experience.

A diet low in fried and oily foods will also help one to keep obesity at bay. If one is to experience as well as give sexual pleasure, it is crucial that the body weight be maintained within appropriate limits. Results of several studies in fact show that obesity is a definite risk factor for erectile dysfunction and low testosterone levels. So, stick to a diet which will help you to keep your weight within healthy limits. Make sure your meals are rich in whole grains, fruits and vegetables. When going for proteins stick to fish and white meat instead of fat-rich red meat.

However don’t go off fats completely since they are necessary in the production of hormones. Cholesterol is metabolized in the liver and two importantly by-products are testosterone and estrogen – hormones crucial for sex drive. The important thing is to stick to the ‘good facts’ which are available in foods like salmon, olive oil and nuts.

For women who are looking to have a good time under covers, try soy. Studies have shown that soy helps in binding estrogen receptors which in turn is improves lubrication in the vaginal area and also helps to combat menopausal symptoms like hot flashes. However women who have a history or are at high risk of breast cancer should avoid large amounts soy since the binding of estrogen receptors can lead to a relapse of the cancer.

3. Learn to manage your medical conditions

Medical studies have revealed that several kinds of medical conditions like diabetes, hypertension or heart disease are linked to erectile dysfunction. Following a low-fat diet and exercising regularly is crucial for effective management of these medical conditions. Once you incorporate healthy habits in your lifestyle, you will be better equipped to manage any medical condition that you may have and also lead a fulfilling sex life.

4. Restrain intake of Alcohol

Popular culture may be overflowing with images of macho men downing Scotch and martinis and having women all over them. But in reality, too much alcohol works in just the opposite way. This is because alcohol is an anesthetic and having a drink too many will numb the nerve sense in a person’s sex organs. The result may range from failure to get an erection to inability to reach orgasm. Again drinking is liable to make people clumsier than usual which is sure to hinder sexual pleasure. Finally excessive drinking is more likely to lead to unhappy sex life. This is because when a person is drunk, he or she is unlikely to bother about who the sexual partner is. But with the return of reason, that person is bound to be disappointed, ashamed or even disgusted by who he or she went to bed with. So if you want to have a healthy sex life, limit your drinks to one or two pegs and instead of going for a Scotch on the rocks, stick to wines and drinks with low alcohol content.

5. Put out that cigarette

You must’ve heard the joke about kissing a chain smoker and feeling like one is licking an ashtray. But federally-funded medical studies have confirmed that smoking has a direct, negative effect on the sexuality of man at every level. Smokers who are going through half a packet every day experience diminished sex drive, even if they are in their 20s and 30s. Again the smoking negatively affects the male sexual performance by interfering with smooth erectile function. When diminished desire is combined with impaired performance, the overall sexual experience is bound to be unsatisfactory. So put out that cigarette if you want a more fulfilling love life, not to mention a longer and healthier life over all.

6. Avoidance of stress

In recent times there have been several surveys trying to find out why urban professional couples are having sex less than before. One reason for this may be the intolerable levels of stress in modern life. When both partners have demanding jobs and at the same time have to take care of a home and kids, sex is often put at the bottom of the to-do list. In order to have a healthy love life, try to find a balance between your professional and personal schedules. Let either partner take up a less demanding job and reduce your wants accordingly. Make weekly holidays and vacations off-limits for bosses and co-workers. Try meditating at least once a day to reconnect with yourself and attain perspective on the small inconveniences of life. This will in turn help you to reconnect with your partner and lead to a satisfying love life.

7. Check your Medication

Very often certain types of medication can interfere with the functioning of a normal libido. Prescriptions for anxiety and depression like Prozac and Paxil can negatively affect sex drive in some people. So always check with your doctor before you take anti-depressants and ask what side effects they might induce.

8. Get enough sleep

Sleep deprivation and sleep disturbances are one of the most common culprits when it comes to having an unhealthy sex life. Getting seven to nine hours of sleep every night is crucial to revitalizing all the systems of your body so that the next day you have adequate energy to go to work, do chores around the house and, yes, have good sex. But when your body is hungry for rest and sleep, it is natural that your sex drive as well as performance should suffer. Sleep deprivation may occur due to snoring by your partner, sleep apnea, stress at work, uncomfortable bedroom conditions or emotional problems. Whatever the reason, consult a doctor or a sleep specialist to diagnose the problem and offer solutions. Remember the more relaxed you are in mind and body, the greater will be sexual energy and enjoyment.

9. Finally, have a positive outlook

Depression is one of the biggest obstacles to healthy sex life. If you feel miserable about your work, your family and yourself, you are unlikely to find pleasure in any love relationship. This in fact is a pity, since a satisfying relationship can work wonders to treat a depression. This is the time when a depressed person needs to be loved, cherished and appreciated by someone close. However a person suffering from depression will withdraw into a shell and want to have nothing to do with the rest of the world, including his or her partner. Physiological implications are likely to range from lack of interest in sex and loss of libido to erectile dysfunction in men and inability to attain orgasm in women. At such a time, it is best to consult a specialist who may suggest a combination of counseling and medication to treat depression. However if it is in your power, try to maintain a positive attitude in life. Stop being a perfectionist and fearing that others are out to get you. Simplify your life and learn to distinguish between needs and wants. All this will help you to feel good about yourself which is imperative if you are to feel good about your relationship and have a healthy love life.

Does Your Woman Want To Be Dominated?

In this article you will find whether or not your woman enjoys being docile within relationships and what you can do in order to let you have control.

Whereas today's women are more enterprising than before in various spheres of life, starting from their workplace to their home, men generally remain ones who dominate in the dating and sexual arenas. Besides all, women are still afraid of making the first move, and expect men to start conversation and risk refusal by asking them out. Moreover, the majority of women expect men to plan their dates and naturally pay for them. And we perfectly know on whom the burden to start sex falls more often.

This fact raises wonders between men and women as whether or not equality is really what women are after.

You are the man

Despite the fact that women are capable of doing many things, that sometimes even were thought as being the domain of men, the simple truth is that most of them still want to be feminine while being with their men, probably the same way as men want to feel masculine.

And the smarter women understood that all this may happen only if they let go and let them be men, concerning all stages of a relationship.

Power of seduction

When you want a relationship with a woman to become intimate, you switch on your charm and do everything to seduce her. But in order to be seduced, a woman should reduce her defenses and permit the man to work his magic on her. Thus, seduction is a form of psychological domination in which namely woman gives up control of the situation to the man.

Docile type

In case your woman is a docile type, who expects you to make the decisions within the relationship, then probably she prefers being dominated in sex as well. She perhaps prefers when you start sex and take the helms under the sheets. For example she may like when you give her some instructions during sex. The only possible way to find out if she is a docile type is by looking to her reactions during sex and of course talking about your fantasies and wishes with each other.

But it doesn’t mean that this same woman doesn’t want to start sex and be the one who takes the rains. The same about a woman who usually prefers to control everything by herself may like to be docile in the bed and let her man be the one who dominates.

She is a woman

Unfortunately, too many men can’t understand that the concept of equality doesn’t mean that women wan to be treated like men, it just means that women want the same civility and respect that is afforded to men to be extended toward them.

Deep down, a woman wants to be taken care of and feel that she is your woman. So, respect your woman, treat her as your other half and she will willingly submit.

The Best Places to Hide your Sex Toys

Where to hide sex toys, lubricants and other erotic things to keep them out of reach of children or parents? Many people have faced this tough question at least once in their lives. Many of us like diversifying sexual life with the use of a lube, dildo or other silicone friends, but when it comes to storing them some people simply give up.

But you’re not alone with this problem. You’d be amazed to find out where people can store their erotic toys so their relatives don’t run into them. Here are some of the most popular ideas.

The most important thing you should bear in mind when thinking where to store adult toys is that they should be stored near your bed. It can bring a huge disappointment if you have to leave your aroused partner in the middle of your hot foreplay in order to find your sex toy. So, the best thing is to store toys close to bed, or get them close each time you go to bed.

The nightstand

Nightstand is one of the most popular storage places for sex toys. Of course, if you live with your parents, have children or hire a cleaning woman, this isn’t an appropriate place to hide your silicone friends. But you can buy a nightstand that has a secret shelf or drawer with a lock, so you can use it when storing your toys. However, if you live alone with your partner and are childless, the nightstand is definitely the perfect place for you. Maybe it’s not the most original place, but it is the most functional one.

The bed

Some beds also have drawers behind the bed-head or under the bed, so you can install a lock on the drawer and store your toys there. Don’t forget the keys should also be stored somewhere near the bed.

Other people use the space between the box spring and the mattress to store their erotic treasures. But this storage place has many drawbacks, as some toys can be damaged by accidental smashing. Or the vibrators can switch on if you press on them accidentally during play or sleep.

Moreover, if you hire a cleaning lady, she can find your toys when changing your sheets. So, you should consider another place to hide your precious toys.

Shoe Box

Many people keep their sex toys in the shoe boxes, as this place usually doesn’t attract children and parents. Some people even put several shoe boxes under the bed, in order to cast away the suspicions. So, apparently it’s a nice place.

Customized Box

You can also order a nice box with a key-lock, if you can afford these expensive items. Such boxes can be placed on the nightstand or other place, and as it is locked and you are the only card-holder, no-one will be able to open it. But be careful, kids love such forbidden fruit, so have the key always with you.

These are the most popular hiding places for the sex toys. While some people can leave their toys wherever they want to, for others it is not so easy to hide them from their children. So, find your perfect storage place and keep having fun with your favorite sex toys.

The natural female aphrodisiacs

Sex and the ultimate quest for pleasure, have always preoccupied both men and women. While propaganda always highlights the male preoccupation with sexual fulfillment, women are also eager to experiment with aphrodisiacs. Studies reveal that a significant proportion of women never achieve orgasm and sexual fulfillment. Natural aphrodisiacs are substances occurring in nature like plants, fruits, nuts and vegetables that can be used to stimulate and enhance desire. They may also improve the ability to have sex.

Many of the natural aphrodisiacs work for men and women alike but in different ways, acting on their natural systems with the end goal of intensifying sexual desire. Some of the following items are formulated to boost the libido, or even to expand sexual experience. Then there are those that are designed to improve general well-being, increase energy and act as mood enhancers – leading to a greater interest in sex.

Some of the natural aphrodisiacs for women are:

Arginine, an amino acid found in meat, nuts, eggs, coconut milk and cheese, has been found as a safe and effective route to increase the amount of growth hormone (GH) released from the pituitary gland that helps to retard many aspects of aging. As a natural female aphrodisiac, Arginine, along with other supplements, enhances sexual desire, can reduce vaginal dryness, increase the frequency of intercourse and orgasm and even improve clitoral sensation and sexual arousal, thus giving a boost to the libido.

Chocolate, favored by the Aztec gods, helps the release of serotonin that is responsible for feelings of relaxation and pleasure. Dark chocolate is preferable as it contains a higher level of cocoa that is supposed to be more effective. It provides a boost to some good, old-fashioned loving and has the additional advantage of being high in magnesium and antioxidants.

Damiana has been found to contain alkaloids that directly stimulate the sex organs and is also known for its ability to tone the mucous membranes of reproductive organs. Mexican women used to drink an infusion of the herb a couple of hours before bed, to get aroused for their men. Thus it acts as a sexual stimulant. It not only increases the possibility of reaching orgasm but also increases its intensity and betters sexual performance. It is also known to be helpful for the digestive system. It has been helpful in female physiological/hormonal areas such as irritability, headache and acne, and menstrual difficulties, insufficient flow or delayed menstruation in adolescent girls.

Fenugreek, a medicinal plant, has aromatic seeds which were used extensively by the Egyptians, Greeks and Romans. Harem women used it as part of their staple diet, to increase the size and roundness of their breasts. It is also reportedly used in some herbal products that claim ‘bust enhancement’ properties. It is sometimes recommended to nursing mothers to improve their milk supply. It aids in the synthesis of various sex hormones and has estrogenic effects. The seeds have a maple syrup-like odor, and can freshen breath, making somebody more likely to want to get closer to you!

How to Be Happy After Divorce?

Many people believe that it is not possible to have a happy life after divorce. Often these people are so depressed that they don’t have the power to think about something else. They constantly think how they will live without their partners, as usually the decision to divorce comes from one partner. All their thoughts are about past events, they try to understand why this happened namely to them.

These people are scared by their new life, as something unknown is always frightening. They don’t want to start new relationships, as being afraid to feel all that pain again. Being alone with their thoughts and pain is the only thing they want.

There are people who may love so strong that they forget about their own integrity, living only for their partner. They dedicate everything to them. Of course it is romantic, but when it becomes too far, it is already not love, but an obsession. Their happiness depends on their partners.

All people are created full-fledged and that is why we must be happy in spite of everything. We sacrifice our personal live, instead of filling it with love, happiness, making some things for us or realizing our dreams.

People should learn to love, it is not bad even good when you are filled with love, but don’t forget about yourself!

If divorce occurred in your life this means that something was wrong, you have missed something about yourself. Remember that you should have self-esteem, as a particular attitude towards yourself has the same attitude from others. If you are indifferent toward yourself, why others should respect and listen to you. As it is said, take a fancy for yourself and then all the world will be at your feet.

All what happened can’t be changed. The only thing you should do is to draw a lesson from your previous marriage. Everything that occurs in our live is not accidental, each event teaches us something. If you didn’t draw a lesson from your past experience it for sure would repeat again and again till you do not understand what is not right.

So, now is just the perfect time to take care of yourself! This will help to revive your personal life. Enjoy life, distract yourself and life will award you with pleasant surprises!

Share you grief, talk about divorce with your close friends. They will cheer you up and will help you to overcome this difficult period. Travel as it will help you distract your thoughts and attention. Get new friends as being around new people that you do not associate with your ex is very efficient. Do whatever you like, don’t miss you chance to be again happy, love and be loved!

Does Chocolate Affect Sex Life?

If you want to improve your sex it doesn’t mean that you must obligatory buy new lingerie, lubes or sex toys, though they also should be present in your sex life.

Men and women are always looking for some new and sophisticated things to boost and excite their sex. They try new sex toys, new positions without thinking that a simple and delicious ingredient from the local shop may help them have an unforgettable night - a chocolate.

Since appearance of chocolate among people burst a belief that it has a euphoric influence on the body’s senses. According to historical data the Emperor Montezuma consumed large quantities of beverage made from cacao before entering his harem. The well-known lover Casanova drank a cacao and considered it even more exciting than champagne naming it the "elixir of love". It was considered that cacao is a powerful aphrodisiac and since then chocolate was used on wedding nights.

Recently in a research was found out that chocolate not only raises sexual desire but also creates a sensation similar to an orgasm. Chocolate also has shown its psychotropic effects on people. Such stimulating substances as caffeine and theobromine were found in cacao beans.

If you feel anxiety about something eat a bar of chocolate and you will feel its relaxing effect due to a high level of serotonin, a chemical substance produced by the brain that is known by its properties to lower anxiety.

Neither of these properties provides the connection between consuming a chocolate and increasing sexual desire. Here is probably the effect of endorphins that are produced after eating a chocolate and particularly the dark one, that are similar to a beatitude related to a healthy sexual relationship.

Chocolate also possesses phenylethylamine that is known to stimulate the elaboration of dopamine into the pleasure centers usually associated with an orgasm.
According to a survey women who eat large quantities of chocolate are more satisfied with their sex life.

In spite of the fact that correlation between sex and chocolate can not be proved with 100%, the scientific data combined with behavioral investigation shows an unchallenged fact for chocolate’s effect on our sexual arousal. Probably this is a convincing factor to make chocolate a part of our diet.

If you want to plan a sexy night for you partner, use chocolate. Buy a chocolate pie and feed each other in a more sexy way. You may even splash chocolate sauce on your partner's body and lick it; this for sure will spice up your night.

In order to feel the real taste of a chocolate and perceive its stimulating and exciting effect it is better to buy a chocolate that possesses a high cocoa amount and doesn’t contains excessive number of sugar and oils. In case you prefer milk chocolate its ok, as it also will work well.