Tuesday, August 24, 2010

Things men do that irritate women

Men have the ability to irritate their women without striking a blow, only by doing the below stated things on a regular basis.

Thinking that your driver’s license is counterfeit.

Men don’t admit the fact that you also may have the driver’s license and drive a car even better than men. They would prefer to drive a long way than asking you to drive for awhile. According to statistics realized by many insurance companies, women are involved in fewer accidents than men are.

Thinking that the house cleans itself.

Men never pay attention on what women do around house. They can’t understand that dirty socks doesn’t remove themselves under the bed, food doesn’t unexpectedly appear on the table, clean and ironed clothes don’t get into the cupboard by themselves and dishes don’t clean themselves. Women also work for 8 hours per day, they also get tired but they come from work and start to clean and prepare dinner. Whether men can’t at least wash dishes after them?

Being jealous.

Women don’t like even do not suffer when men treat them like their own property, watching their every move. When a man is jealous and prohibits to his woman all sorts of things, not allowing her to communicate with her friends or with people whom he doesn’t like, it means that he is unassured of himself. This act doesn’t show his love or affection.

Cracking his mother up to the nines.

His mother always will be the most sacred being in any relationship. He thinks that his mother is the best woman and his own woman must behave like his mother. Men always will compare their women cooking with their mother’s culinary creations. And women should do not try to criticize his mother as it may only worsen the situation.

Thinking that their spending is essential and women's wasteful.

The subscription to the golf club or a new auto customizing is more essential than household objects. Many men even do not know how much all this objects cost. Though they also use these objects while their women continue to go by bus and carry heavy bags with products.

Macho man.

Those men who are completely bald and who have even a big beer belly think that all women find them attractive and macho man. And many women would like to date with them. But when it comes to their women they notice even an extra three kilos and always point on it.

Making a mountain out of a molehill when he gets sick.

When women get sick they take a pill and go to bed, without disturbing their men. But with men is another story, if a man is sick then hold the fort! They are even worse than children, they will say that have a serious disease and ask their woman to call doctor, when having a simple flu.

But in spite of everything women love them, because they are so dear and close people.

Friday, August 20, 2010

All About the G Spot

The g spot has been female sexual anatomy’s cause celebre for the past several years, and interest in the g spot is showing no signs of slowing down. It’s hard to know whether the g spot fascination is coming directly from people or from the variety of industries that make money off sexual trends. Either way, it is worth getting some basic information, and resources that can help you find answers that are right for you.

The Great G Spot Debate

This is a difficult question to give a balanced answer to precisely because there is still debate about the g spot. Your family doctor might give you one answer, a “g spot sex activist” would give you another answer, and a medical researcher who has studied female sexual anatomy would give you a third answer.

Does the G Spot Exist?

Because no one really agrees on what “g spot” means, arguing its existence becomes futile since the skeptic may be using different definitions and criteria. There are several studies published in established and respected peer-reviewed journals that are relevant to the question about whether the g spot exists.

What Is the G Spot?

The g spot was named for the German physician Ernst Grafenberg who first described "an erotic zone located on the anterior wall of the vagina along the course of the urethra that would swell during sexual stimulation."

Finding the G Spot

This is a common question both for those who have a g spot, and those who want to learn to stimulate them. One of the problems people have when trying to locate the g spot is that they are expecting it to be a magic button, which, once pressed, immediately delivers mind altering sexual pleasure. Sadly this only happens in old Woody Allen movies.

G Spot Vibrators

There are hundreds of sex toys designed and marketed as g spot vibrators or g spot dildos. Most sex toys that are safe for penetration, and firm enough that they won’t bend when inserted into the vagina, can be used for g spot stimulation. Whenever a sex toy is hyped, like a toy designed to stimulate the g spot, people might imagine something akin to a heat seeking missile that will search and satisfy on its own.

G Spot Books

Most general sex manuals that have been written in the past ten years include some basic information about the g spot. If you’re looking for more detailed information and you’re the kind of person who likes to read about the history and politics of sexuality, the following books will offer you more than a passing reference to how to find your g spot and what it might feel like (although most of them do that too!)

source: sexuality.about.com

Thursday, August 19, 2010

What secrests women are talking about?

It’s not a big secret that women talk. The most minutiae of detail about you will not escape her notice and will freely escape her scarlet lips when she’s with the girls. The question is: What will she divulge and what will she keep to herself? Here is a blow-by-blow list of what she talks about and the reasons behind her confessions.

Does size matter?

Women are inquisitive by nature and the mildest subject of their curiosity can be violated seven ways to Sunday. There is no doubt that when girl talk turns bawdy, many men fall under immense scrutiny. Not-so-innocent discussions may arise regarding your endowment because of dissatisfaction, comfort or discomfort and even to gloat -- for the women with “larger” men.

Does she tell her friends? No.

Generally, women will not disclose or even know the exact dimensions of their mate -- unless he has asked her to help him measure his member. For women, describing size is similar to giving directions: Women often give directions by using landmarks and commonly shared points of interest, such as the cool accessories shop downtown. When guys give directions they employ street names, times and miles.

Men think in spatial terms, which often leads them to use a ruler on their member. Women, on the other hand, are empathetic and describe their “feelings” about their men. Their thoughts on your penis likely involve whether or not it’s a good fit, if you need to go deeper or if they are entirely fulfilled. Interestingly, if the relationship is going well, the size or lack thereof is downplayed. Women in love will not jeopardize their relationship on something as trivial as size. Typically, women don’t want to disparage their men and risk the happiness of the relationship.

How’s your technique?

OK, here’s where things can get embarrassing for men. Technique may be discussed between girlfriends, but if they are kind enough, they may not directly reference their men; however, this aspect will be thoroughly threshed out. Women will talk about what they are unsatisfied with in unbelievable detail, but they’ll also sing praises when they're deserved.

Does she tell her friends? Yes.

Disclosing intimate details, laughing, commiserating, and advising, are all requisites in female relationships. Women get ideas and sex tips from one another. Unlike men, women talk about their problems: If there’s something they don’t like, chances are one of their friends has heard about it and has given some pointers to help point the issue in the right direction.

On a positive note, if you’re too good for words, she has definitely created her own vocabulary to describe just how amazing you are.

What’s the frequency?

Everyone has insecurities. We all wonder about sexual frequency and ask: What is average? Are we above average? What are the averages of our neighbors, coworkers and friends? How often you have sex is a common question. It fulfills personal expectations of normalcy and personal desires to be more frequent than average. She may talk about this aspect of your relationship if she feels that you are engaging in too much or too little sex.

Does she tell her friends? Yes.

Women may become insecure about their relationship and use the long-standing barometer of sexual frequency to measure the status of a relationship. Having sex too often can be somewhat boring, which may result in speculation regarding the levels of comfort and interest in the relationship. If sex sharply decreases, women will worry that they have become unattractive, that they have been replaced or that they are being cheated on. Also, women may feel overwhelmed if sex increases beyond what is desired. In either case, they will look to their friends for support and to discuss insecurities.

Is there a lack of communication?

If you are neither communicating with her nor responding to her requests or wishes, then be aware that her friends may hear this. A nonresponsive partner can be a source of frustration and women will turn to their friends when they need an outlet.

Does she tell her friends? Yes.

A lack of communication in the bedroom is a sore spot. If women feel unheard in bed, they may resent hearing their partner elsewhere. Friends are often consulted to learn how to get a man to listen or how to communicate in such a way that does not antagonize or judge. Women may turn to their friends simply because they need someone to hear them.

Friends are a perfect conduit for venting and advice, but be warned that if you aren’t hearing her wants and needs in bed, someone else will.

Talk dirty to me

Perception dictates that women are genteel and do not descend into vulgarity. Many women find it uncomfortable participating in this kind of naughty conversation because they simply don’t know what to say and often end up feeling inadequate and ridiculous.

Does she tell her friends? No.

It’s the rule of generalities -- women may discuss the fact that they engaged in some steamy talk; however, particulars and actual words won’t be repeated unless something laughable was said. For the most part, women will not go around telling their friends how their man waxed poetic about her firm breasts. Specifics are largely underutilized here.

What’s your fetish?

Again, it is the return of establishing normalcy or deviancy. If women breach this topic with their friends, they may be feeling a little intimidated by the fetish, feel inadequate to the wants and needs or be seeking a discreet out from something that they’re not prepared to enjoy.

Does she tell her friends? No.

The embarrassment may be too great and the subject too controversial for some women to freely talk about. Women may not want to be perceived differently from their friends -- especially if they like what is done in the bedroom or wherever the fetish leads them.

How’s your end game?

What men do after having sex resounds in the minds of women. Women often ask: Does he fall asleep? Does he cuddle for five minutes then zip up? Does he stay the night?

Does she tell her friends? Yes.

After a romantic interlude, women may find it necessary to tell their friends exactly what happened. Women want opinions that will confirm their suspicions, allay worries or coincide with happy wishes.

The emotional blow is tangible when men leave right after sex. Women will replay conversations in their heads to find that one word that indicates another meeting and see if his actions follow suit. All these variables are examined and discussed with their friends; be aware of the verbal and nonverbal cues you send on your exit. Unless the woman is also using the man, she will not appreciate a quick getaway.

chatterbox

Friends are invaluable to women. They play the roles of therapist, sister, sounding board, and mother. What women tell or don’t tell their friends is reliant upon mood and how into you they are. Among friends, happiness is shared jubilantly and dissatisfaction is dissected.

How satisfied she is with you and the relationship correlates into positive conversations with her girls. Treat her well and you won’t have to worry about any possible embarrassment later.

Monday, August 16, 2010

Silicone Love in Vogue Today

Some men rather prefer to have sex with a silicone doll than with a real woman. There are a lot of reasons of such an interesting choice. For example, people who had accidents or are handicapped, or some of them just don’t feel good close to a real woman or they think that they can not find one.

These are only some of the reasons why men buy silicone love-dolls that look just like a real woman. Some of these men even start taking care of them and building a real relationship.

So, millions of men spend approximately $6,500 for silicone dolls. These dolls are oriented only for satisfaction of men’s sexual desire and fantasy.

In general love dolls are made and designed as an absolute replica of persons. Men have the choice to propose their ideal woman, because they can choose different body types of the doll, as size of heads, skin tones, palette of make up, colors of hair.

They also have the possibility to choose the breast size that they can touch every day and every night. Most of men use such dolls because they are more erotic and pleasant women and also because they help them easier to reach orgasm anytime.

These dolls are loyal to their master. For example love dolls have and other advantages like not getting pregnant, or they can’t transmit sexual diseases. And most important is that they never say No when men want to have hot sex.

Only adult love dolls can either to intimate or excited all the necessities of men. Some men use love dolls only for sex until they reach their orgasm. But for others such dolls become a possible friend to those who are seeking happiness and not explainable sexual intense desires.

We can’t say that men who use love dolls are misogynist, pervert, rapist, loser, desperate or sexual monster, because they only do sex with them without hurting anybody. And only these dolls make them happy and full of energy.

Love dolls which are also called Blow-Up have gaps in such places as mouth, vagina and ass, so men can enjoy the Kamasutra positions without any problem.

Friday, August 13, 2010

Risky Sex because of Alcohol Use

Sex and alcohol is not a good idea, because alcohol increases the risky sex. Usually the sexual decision is easier to make than when you are not drunk. However, unfortunately in the morning most of those people who had risky sex are not pleased of what they made at night.

Even if the majority of people understand the sexual risks, they continue to use sex with alcohol or vice versa.

It is easier to say that you will not drink alcohol when you plan to have sex, but it is hard not to use it especially when you are going to relax. Unfortunately, scientists observed that drinking alcohol can lead to increased risky sexual behavior, like not using condoms, or even having sex that later you regret you had it.

Research showed also that there is a big connection between alcohol consumption and having sex without condoms.

So, it is clear that the link between alcohol and risky sex is more confused that one might pretend.

Alcohol can influence the people’s decision and sensations. This looks in particular important if they planned to have sex with a new person.

Most of the alcohol’ effects are not physical but psychological, because most of people drink alcohol for to feel more relaxed and exited. This is very important in people which can reach the same sexual effect even without alcohol.

The sexuality depends of how much alcohol you intend to drink. For example, if you will drink only a little of wine then you will be more excited. But if you will be drunk then you will have some problems with your sexuality, and you will not increase the chances of having risky sex, but will reduce the pleasure of having unforgettable sex with a sexy lady or gentleman.

So, how risky the sex which you had being drunk is depends of many factors, but of course the most important of them is how conscious you are of the risks of such pleasure. Better decision will be to enjoy your sexual life without alcohol, which can change your life forever.

Tuesday, August 10, 2010

Steps that Will Help you to get through a Break up (Part 3)

10. Organize your personal space.

Think positively as break up signifies a new beginning. That is why occupy yourself with domestic cares, wash, clean and organize your personal space. Thus throwing the old thing you will make the place for new to come. A mess not only in thoughts but as well at home provokes depression that is why don’t be lazy and tidy up your personal space. While tidying you will focus your attention on what you are doing thus you will don’t have time to think about your ex. Doing such tasks will make this difficult life period a little bit easier, occupying your mind with other than your ex things.

11. Remove everything that reminds about your ex.

If there are some things that remind you of your ex as for instance a song, a place or a photo, try not to keep them as you only torture yourself. Walk around your home and remove the things that force you to remember about your ex. Don’t try to leave something, as in anyway it will make you think again and again about him/her. Taking them off usually makes wonders. If you have a dear gift that was given by your ex, it is not bad that you will keep it but for this period of time try to put it away, till you feel that you are not more connected to him/her.

12. Find relief in other part of your life.
Try to take interest in some things. You may spend your time with your friends, family or relatives. Enroll yourself for a course of dance or whatever you always wanted. Find that book that you were advised to read by your friend, and didn’t have time because of ex. Do what you want, dedicate all time only for yourself. Remember that besides your relationships there is another part of you life that is also very interesting and deserves to be tried and lived!

13. Be active.

Try to lead an active lifestyle as it will ameliorate you mood and will rid you from depression. As being involved in something will keep your mind off the situation. You may start running in the morning, visit a sport club, or simply go for a walk with a friend. And while walking release yourself from anger and pain.

14. Let it go.

Let go this relations. Understand that there is no use in crying and regretting or feel hatred towards your ex. Remember that although it is all over you spend with your ex an excellent time together. You can be happy because you had the opportunity to love and be loved, which many people would wish to feel. If this time it didn’t work, there for sure will be another.

15. Be an optimist.

Change your way of thinking and you will see how your life is changing. Think positively and be ready for new challenges.

Monday, August 9, 2010

Steps that Will Help you to get through a Break up (Part 2)

6. Deal with your anger.

This is when you are overwhelmed with anger and hatred and the only thing you want in this moment is to scream. It depends mostly on how difficult the brake up was in what circumstances it happened. You can even revile your ex for loosing so much time with him/her. You will realize that this breakup was unavoidable remembering some facts that you haven’t noticed at those times. Thus you will be anger on yourself for not seeing it before. It is a time- waste because you have to understand that this will not change the situation, you only harm yourself. There are so many thing you can do using your energy. Though in such situations it is better to replace the feeling of love towards your ex on that of anger, as sometimes it helps to get through it easily.

7. Take into confidence with your closed friends and relatives.

Try to be close to people who love and appreciate you. Being surrounded by compassionate, and giving moral support friends and family members will help you to feel loved and needed and it would be easier to overcome this difficult life period. Spending your time next to cheerful and positive people will feel you with energy and will make you happier. You will even not notice how quickly you forget your ex.

8. Put down your feelings.

One more helpful step is to try to put down all you feelings and emotions at present moment. Be honest with you and write how it is. Sometimes it helps, as you look on this situation from the other side. While putting down your feelings you may realize that you are already not so angry and it will be easier for you to comprehend useful life lessons. You shouldn’t think about your break up as a failure, although you have lost your relationships you learnt something about yourself and some other things that will help you in your future life.

9. Make a list of ex negative traits.

One more hint to get through this situation is to make a list of your ex negative traits. Be inexorable and write it down how it is. Make this picture for yourself thus you will have the opportunity to see how your ex really looks. Put down what happened and what you felt in that moment; write those situations between you and your ex, which you don’t want to feel again. And when you will feel that you can’t live anymore without your ex, get out this list and read it for a couple of times. Do you want to feel it again?

Friday, August 6, 2010

Being in Love and Keep Your Person Strong

Strong and loving relationship that exist between man and woman is something magnificent. The feelings that connect them cant be described in words. Love and sex is something pleasant and exciting. Let this feeling of love never leaves us, let it leave with and inside us. The feeling of passion, a sea of emotions that overwhelm our soul!

This guide will help you keep the love in your life magical, lasting, and extraordinary.

About girls, for the guys: you may think we talk about anything and everything, so how possibly could we have trouble communicating. The truth is, we fear rejection and being alone more than the average guy does. The result is that most girls will talk about everything except what's bothering them most, out of fear of our significant other leaving us or being angry with us.

  • The cure: Reassure her that you love her, and will not leave her over a fight or relationship issue. At this point, your love should be strong enough to withstand most things, bickering and fighting included. Tell her that all long relationships have fights, and the most important thing is solving problems, so as not to build up resentment and damage the relationship.
  • Do not: Tell her she is being irrational for her fears of you leaving. While we know that you mean it in a reassuring sense, that you would never leave her over something so insignificant, she takes it to mean that you don't respect her opinions or emotions, and think she's a silly little girl. Her emotions, while probably irrational, are still true, and as such are valid. Treat her with the respect she deserves.


About guys, for the girls: Guys feel a constant pressure to perform and compete, and they constantly feel like their ladies are judging them. If they're with you, they think you're the most beautiful, most amazing thing under the sun, but they have trouble constantly reaffirming their affection. To them, what's true is true, and does not need to be constantly addressed.
  • The cure: Tell them what you want from them. Guys hate guessing games and are not very good at them. If you want something for Valentine's day, have a heart and at least give them some hints, like, "I want flowers, but I want you to pick out what you would most think I would like, and not roses like everyone gets." Praise them, and tell them how much you enjoy it whenever they do something unexpected for you, so they don't have to constantly wonder if you enjoyed what they did, and if they should do it again.
  • Do not: expect them to constantly be thinking about you, every second of the day. The fact that they love you, to them, is so obvious that it doesn't need constant reassessment. Also, girls communicate so much more non-verbally than guys do, but you've got to open your mouth and speak if you want to communicate with your boyfriend/husband. They hardly ever realize something is wrong unless you tell them.

Next time you have a fight or are even upset with your beloved, take a step back and see if some of the problem is caused by your two very different communication styles. If you can begin to see where your other half is coming from, that's half the problem resolved already!

Keeping the Magic in Your Relationship

It's a common complaint, one that too many people panic at, and think incorrectly that it means the relationship is failing.

  •  "The magic just isn't there anymore."
  •  "He's not the man I fell in love with."
  •  "When we first dated, my heart beat faster when I saw her. Not anymore."

The common theme in all of these is that things between the two of you just aren't amazing as they used to be. It's not the end of the world, and it is definitely a problem that can be fixed. Using the communication skills highlighted above, you can fix these issues before they become something bigger.

  •  Keep kissing. Studies show that couples in failing relationships stop kissing each other on the lips long before they stop having sex. In many ways, kissing is much more intimate than sex. Here are a few ways to become a kissing expert.
  •  Do little things for each other. Give her a foot rub after a long day at work. Buy him tickets to a sports game, and pretend you enjoy watching sweaty men run around a field wih a ball. The little ways you show you appreciate each other add up, and will bring the romance back into your life.
  •  Get away from all other distractions. Rent a hotel room for a couple nights, or find a cheap getaway cruise for three nights. Chances are, you were just too stressed and distracted to fully appreciate your loved one, and time away from work and duties will remind you of what's important.
  •  If you need help, seek it. If these things aren't doing it, there's still no reason to become a divorce statistic unless there is truly no other way. Talk to your religious leader, go to a professional counselor, do whatever you need.

You will always regret a failed relationship if you don't truly believe you did whatever you could to fix the problems. If he or she is important enough to you, you will do whatever it takes to make things work. Don't give up! There is always hope.

Keeping a Financially-Peaceful Household

One huge cause of misunderstandings and fights in relationships is money: how we earn it, how we spend it, how we save it. It is vital that couples learn that neither should be solely responsible for the relationship's finances. As always, teamwork and mutual respect is the key.

  • Decide how important money is to the two of you. Sure, money is convenient, but at what cost? Is having to send the kids to daycare okay? How about never having the time to go on vacations? Time and money are usually a trade-off, so the two of you need to decide where you stand on the issues.
  • Decide how to spend the money. Do the two of you have separate checking accounts, or are they shared? Either way can work, but you always need to talk over big purchases together, even if you're paying for it with "your" money. Otherwise, your significant other will feel betrayed and not respected when you bring home that enormous television set.
  • Decide how you are going to save money. You both need to get your long-term finances in order. Money conversations are so much less stressful when you know you have money safely saved and in the bank.

Money problems are some of the easiest issues to fix, if you sit down and figure out exactly what you are unhappy about at this moment. Always make money decisions a team effort, and through your problem-solving, the two of you will grow closer in the process.

Thursday, August 5, 2010

Steps that Will Help you to get through a Break up (Part 1)

Everyone who has experienced love has also get through heartbreak. When we love someone we share with our beloved the best, most secret and intimate parts of ourselves. And when it happens that our love is rejected we think that our love is not valuable. People are created to love and be loved - this is what we are. Being rejected by our dear person is interpreted as, “I am nothing and I am not worthy of love”. If you are getting now through a break up try to follow the below presented steps, and very soon you will feel yourself better and free.

1.Think why it happened.

Try to think why you broke up, what happened between you. Even if sometimes you think that there wasn’t any reason, there certainly was one - and certainly not only one. Try to understand that there was a period of time when you were happy together, but it happened that after a while something went wrong in your relations, that none of you liked it and it would end anyway. In relationships it is better sooner than later, because further will be more painful. Such an analysis will help you to avoid other mistakes in the future.

2.Don't try to inhibit yourself.

Don’t hold back yourself, cry if you want, and scream if you need. Give way to your emotions. Spend the whole day in pajamas if you want. Devote this time to yourself; there is nothing wrong that you cry, you have been hurt. After a while you will feel a slight relief.

3.Don't change your decision.

Don’t try to think about your decision, as thinking about all good times you spend together may make you forget all the reasons of your break up. Very often people began to think that those bad parts of relationship were not so bad after all, and they could live with them farther. Try not to play such games with yourself. Come to terms with this situation and move forward.

4.Keep distance.

Although after the breakup you decided to remain friends with your ex, try to have nothing in common with this person. It means that you don’t have to see each other, you shouldn’t communicate with his/her family relatives and you must forget about phone calls and e-mails. These are temporary measures until you feel that it is all over between you two. In case you would need him/her to deal with some practical aspects of things, try limiting these meetings except those important.

5.Cope with emotions.

It is natural to feel that you made something wrong, thus accepting the mistakes. But you also don’t have to forget that you are an ordinary person, who tried to do his /her best and besides of all you are not the one who makes mistakes. Of course to be denied is difficult to stand but soon will be a new acceptance that will make you moving forward.

Wednesday, August 4, 2010

The Best Places for Foreplay

Of course, your bedroom is the most logical choice when it comes to foreplay. You feel the most comfortable there and if foreplay results in sex, there is no need to look for a more private place. So, it’s not strange that most people go to bedroom when starting a make out session. But if you never stepped out from your bedroom, these places will be a great alternative for you.

In Your car
Well, the back seat of your car is probably not the most comfortable place in the world to have a make out session. But who cares about comfort when it comes to passion and desire? Moreover, back seat is a great place for foreplay, as it reminds you of the good old days when you were teenagers and made first steps in sexual life. So, now the foreplay in the back seat could lead to an especially hot sex as a memory of your carefree and fervent youth.

At the movies
Having foreplay in a movie theater is a must-do for every couple. The major thing you should remember is that you should choose a movie that won’t be interesting for both of you. Don’t start rubbing her breast on a romantic movie she has been waiting to see for a long time. Take two seats in the back, better in the corner, as it is the darkest place. Be sure you have no neighbors near you. If everything is clear, start up cuddling her until the light is on.

On a picnic
If the weather is fine, you should definitely invite your love lady to a picnic outdoors. It can be a quiet spot on a beach in a park or forest, or even the roof of a skyscraper. Giving her a make out outside will add adrenalin, making the caresses hotter. So take a blanket, get comfy and start up.

In the swimming pool
Ok, you don’t have to let your sexual fantasies blossom in a public swimming pull in front of children and the elderly. But if you a lucky owner of your own pool or at least a hot tub it is definitely one of the top places to get close. Water gives you more freedom to move, and in addition you are almost naked there, so use your chance, and you will be rewarded.

On the couch
Your own couch can also be one of the best places for make out. It’s comfortable, and no-one will see you, unless you are a risky-taker and can start foreplay under a blanket when being at the same room with your parents. So, start groping her when you are watching a movie together, and continue the evening in a more pleasurable way.

In the elevator
Pushing the emergency stop button like you have seen in the movies could have negative consequences for you, but an innocent foreplay between the floors may be very hot. But, don’t do this if you are not alone in the elevator, and be ready to stop before the doors open.

In your bedroom
Well, your comfy bed is also a great please for a make-out session. Of course, you don’t have to take your girlfriend to a different place each time you want to touch and tease her, as it’s only about making your sex life hotter. But, there is no place better than your home.

Tuesday, August 3, 2010

Sexuality and Ageing

A lot of studies found that ageing can affect the people’s sexuality. Because of ageing most of people have less muscle, less orgasms and even less ejaculates.

Relationship specialists argued that sex is the main key element of relationships but sickness, surgery, and the physical factors that are accompanied by ageing can all affect the couple's sex life.

There are several problems among old couples. For example, a lot of people feel bad because they don’t have the sex which they supposed to be having.

Most of old people think that their body is not sexual and this is the main cause why they don’t have more disposition to encourage sexual experimentation.

So, the main escape from this depression is to think positive about your sexuality. When events such as these occur, some people find that their sex lives never restore. In such cases, other kinds of intimacy can be remarkable representative for sexual contact, like: kissing, hugging, touching gently, sleeping nude together or just snuggling can keep those pleasant sensations of coherence alive so that couples still gain the health benefits of the results of love for each other.

The sex pleasant result facilitates worry and depression, increase energy and improve the immune system.

But unfortunately ageing can affect sexuality. So, ageing couples can experience reduced sexual desire, reduced lubrication for women, feeling of being not attractive and not desirable, weaker erections and less potent ejaculations, health obstacles or medication that affect the ability to have erections (e.g. diabetes or drugs for high blood pressure).

Everything will be OK if only old people will ignore everything that may be a big barrier to having a positive sexuality as they age.

It is very important to add that the most absolute sexual modification that comes with aging doesn’t take place in the body or the mind, but it takes place in the society around us.

The fundamental line is that sex isn’t something that stands silent. And sexual process doesn’t end at 18 or 84. We have the ability to change and grow our sexuality forever.

That modification and growth isn’t necessarily easy but it is possible and can result in great sex. One main way to start this process is to stop thinking about the different ways that aging can influence your sexuality.

A lot of couples think positive, they are never too old for pleasing sex life, and even a recent study has found that many older people continue to receive pleasure from sexual activity into their 80s and 90s. Sex may put on less significance but can still be very satisfying.

Monday, August 2, 2010

Fatal Mistakes Women do in Relationship

A loving at first sight relationship may quickly end because of simple things women consider as a manifestation of care and love, but men avoid them like the plague.
Sometimes man disappears, thought only yesterday he confessed his love and promised to live forever with you. And you may only guess the reason of his escape. Or may be you’ve made one of those fatal women mistakes.

When a woman thinks that everything is good and there is no problem in relationship, a man is ready to leave.

Mistake number 1.

A man and a woman rivalry. Any man is assured that he deserves dating with the best girl. With the most beautiful, sexy, skillful, intelligent - this list may be continued endlessly. All this is true only with one small “but” and namely that a girl must be better among other girls but on no conditions she should be better of her man. So try not to show your man how good you are, outplaying him in card five times, running faster or always reminding him how valuable you are and so on. He will not appreciate it! It would be better if you say how proud you are of him. As, otherwise he will feel himself useless and unnoticeable on your background. He might not like to make a family with you, as the role of henpeck is not what he wants.

Mistake number 2.

Thinking that everything is arranged between you and your man. You may think of where to spend honeymoon or how the bridegroom suit will look, but with the one condition do it in your mind, not aloud!

Avoid such talks as where you want to put a cradle or that a wall in your room must be demolished. Are you ready to move the incredible number of your cosmetic products on five centimeters in order to put his shaver and cologne? Men don’t like even hate when someone trenches on their personal territory and takes decision for them.

Mistake number 3.

Remembering the past. Men do not like when they are compared with other men, moreover with your ex-boyfriends. It hurts them if you say that your previous partner was better in this or that. Bite your tongue! Make sure you say him that he is the best.

Mistake number 4.

Don’t ask permanently if he loves you though it is pleasant, as he may think that you have sclerosis, you are not sure about your feelings or you have nothing to talk about.

Mistake number 5.

Don’t decide everything for him, planning where you will go today or tomorrow. Men don’t like being a puppet.

Mistake number 6.

Forget about commanding tone as you may achieve only irritation and worse the situation. Recall subjunctive mood and use it in your speech as, «I would be very glad if you stopped» sounds better than simply «Stop! ».

Mistake number 7.

Following his every step, calling for five times when he is at the meeting, asking if he loves you and how much. Avoid this mistake as another time he will turn off the phone and will start hating you quietly.

Mistake number 8.

Avoid saying too often the pronoun «we». It is most appropriate for mother and her children than for a man, as he is especially afraid of losing the dearest thing namely his independence.